Of all the bonds in The Great Gatsby, only one survives the wreckage with any dignity, and it belongs to the two men who, on the surface, have the least reason to care about each other. The friendship between Gatsby and Nick begins as a piece of pure usefulness. A rich stranger needs the cousin of the woman he loves, and the cousin happens to have rented the small house next door. From that flat transaction grows the single human attachment the novel treats as real. By the last chapter, when the parties have emptied and the telephone has gone silent, Nick Carraway is the only person left standing on Gatsby’s side, and the loyalty he shows then is the closest thing the book offers to redemption.
That arc, from use to devotion, is the central question this study answers: are Gatsby and Nick actually friends, and if they are, what kind of friendship can begin in calculation and end in grief at a graveside. The answer matters because the relationship is the frame around everything else. Nick narrates because he was close enough to watch, and he was close enough to watch because Gatsby first decided he was worth knowing. Read the bond carefully and the whole novel changes shape: it stops being a story about a man chasing a woman and becomes a story about a man who found, almost by accident, the one person who would mourn him.

The claim this article defends has a name worth remembering: the friendship that began as a transaction. Gatsby befriends Nick to reach Daisy, yet the tie outgrows its purpose and becomes the one genuine connection in a book full of false ones. Nick’s lonely fidelity at the funeral, when the rotten crowd that drank Gatsby’s liquor cannot be bothered to attend, is the novel’s only redeemed relationship. To see why, you have to follow the bond from its cold beginning through its warming middle to its bleak, faithful end, and to read what each man takes from the other along the way.
Why the friendship between Gatsby and Nick frames the whole novel
The relationship between these two men is not one thread among many. It is the structural spine of the book. Everything a reader learns about Gatsby arrives filtered through a narrator who was chosen, courted, and finally won over by the man he describes. Without the bond, there is no vantage point. Without the vantage point, there is no novel.
Consider the mechanics of how the story reaches us. Gatsby cannot tell his own tale; the whole power of the book depends on his remaining partly hidden, a figure of rumor and gossip whose truth emerges only in fragments. Daisy will not tell it, because she retreats into her money and her marriage and never looks back. Tom would tell a lie. The only person positioned to assemble the pieces into something like a verdict is the new neighbor who happened to be useful, then happened to become a confidant, then happened to be the last man loyal. The narrative exists because the attachment exists.
This is why reading the bond as merely a supporting detail misses its weight. The connection is the lens. When Nick admires Gatsby, the reader is invited to admire. When Nick recoils from the carelessness around Gatsby, the reader recoils. The famous final judgment, that Gatsby turned out all right at the end and that the foul dust that floated in the wake of his dreams was the real corruption, is not a neutral observation. It is the conclusion of a man who loved his friend and watched the world destroy him. The verdict carries authority precisely because of the relationship that produced it.
What role does the Gatsby and Nick friendship play in the structure of the novel?
The bond supplies the novel its point of view. Nick can narrate Gatsby’s rise and ruin only because Gatsby first drew him close, then trusted him with the truth. The friendship is the reason the story has a witness, and the witness is the reason the story can be told at all.
The friendship also organizes the novel’s moral architecture. Fitzgerald sets the careless rich against a single careful observer, and the only relationship that crosses that line in good faith is the one between the watcher and the dreamer. Tom and Daisy retreat into their vast carelessness; Jordan plays at intimacy and folds when honesty is required; the party guests are a churn of strangers. Against all of this, the slow warming between Gatsby and Nick stands out as the one connection where someone actually gives something he was not required to give. That contrast is the source of the book’s grief. When Gatsby dies, the reader feels the loss through Nick, and the loss lands because the bond was real enough to make it land.
It helps to see how the relationship differs from the way the two men work as opposites. Read as contrasting figures, the cautious Midwesterner and the self-invented striker illuminate each other through difference, a study taken up in the reading of Nick and Gatsby as foils. Read as friends, which is the work of this article, the same two men reveal something the foil reading cannot reach: not how they differ, but what they came to mean to each other, and why one of them stayed when staying cost him everything and gained him nothing.
The two men before they meet: why each was ready for the other
To understand why the bond took root at all, it helps to look at who each man was before the relationship began, because Fitzgerald gives both of them a particular kind of solitude that the connection answers. The friendship works not because the two are alike but because each carries an absence the other happens to fill.
Nick arrives in the East unmoored. He has come back from the war restless, unable to settle into the Midwest that once felt like the warm center of the world, and he heads East to learn the bond business with a vague sense that he is looking for something he cannot name. He rents a modest house among the mansions, an observer by temperament and by economic position, close enough to wealth to watch it and too poor to belong to it. He is the kind of man who notices everything and commits to little, holding himself slightly apart, reserving judgment as his father taught him. That reserve makes him the ideal narrator, but it also makes him lonely in a way he does not fully admit. He is surrounded by people he finds hollow and is quietly starving for someone worth taking seriously.
Gatsby’s solitude is the more spectacular and the more complete. He is the host of enormous gatherings where hundreds of guests eat his food and drink his liquor and spread rumors about him, and not one of them knows him. He stands apart at his own parties, not drinking, watching, a stranger in his own house. The whole apparatus of the mansion and the music and the crowds is built around a single private purpose that none of the revelers suspect, the hope of drawing back one woman across the water. For all his fame, Gatsby has no friend. He has employees, business associates, hangers-on, and an admiring public, but no one who knows the truth of him or cares about the man rather than the spectacle. His loneliness is hidden inside his celebrity, which makes it worse.
Why does Gatsby choose Nick out of everyone around him?
Gatsby chooses Nick first for a practical reason, his blood tie to Daisy, but the bond holds because Nick offers what the crowd cannot: real attention to the man rather than the legend. Nick watches Gatsby closely, takes him seriously, and listens, which no one else in his glittering, indifferent world bothers to do.
These two solitudes are made to meet. Gatsby needs someone who will see past the performance to the person, and Nick is precisely the watcher who does that for a living, the one guest at the party who studies the host instead of consuming the hospitality. Nick needs something solid and serious in a world he finds increasingly empty, and Gatsby, beneath the fraudulence, has a genuine and almost holy intensity of hope that Nick finds magnetic. Each man recognizes in the other a quality his own life lacks. That recognition is what allows a relationship that began as a transaction to become, against the odds, a real attachment. The bond is not an accident of plot. It is the meeting of two people who were each, in different ways, alone, and who found in each other the rare experience of being known.
It is worth marking how unequal the two men are in every external respect and how little that inequality finally matters. Gatsby is fabulously rich; Nick scrapes by. Gatsby is the center of a social universe; Nick is a spectator at its edge. Gatsby has invented a self of dazzling completeness; Nick is a plainer, more honest figure with no grand design. By every measure the world cares about, they are mismatched. And yet the friendship equalizes them, because friendship operates on a currency the world ignores: not money or status, but trust, attention, and the willingness to stay. On that currency, the poor observer turns out to be the richest man in Gatsby’s life, the only one who pays him what he most needs and can least buy.
How the bond begins: recruitment as a bridge to Daisy
The honest reading of this relationship has to begin with an uncomfortable fact. Gatsby does not seek Nick out because he likes him. He seeks him out because of where Nick lives and whom Nick knows. The small house at the edge of the great estate belongs to Daisy’s cousin, and Daisy is the entire object of Gatsby’s existence. The first warmth Gatsby shows is, in cold terms, an investment.
The recruitment unfolds in stages, and Fitzgerald is careful to let the reader feel its calculation before its sincerity. There are the invitations to the parties, the special notice the host pays to one guest among hundreds, the strange formality of a wealthy man courting the favor of a clerk who barely earns his rent. Then the machinery becomes explicit. Jordan Baker, acting as Gatsby’s intermediary, lays the request out plainly: Gatsby wants Nick to invite Daisy to tea so that Gatsby can arrive, as if by chance, and stand again in front of the woman he lost five years earlier. Nick is being asked to stage a reunion. He is, in the most literal sense, being used.
Fitzgerald does not soften this. The reunion is choreographed down to the absurd detail of the flowers and the man Gatsby sends to cut Nick’s grass, because the host of the most lavish parties on Long Island cannot bear for his rival’s cousin to receive Daisy on an untrimmed lawn. The whole arrangement is a performance, and Nick is both stagehand and audience. If the relationship were only this, it would be a tidy little study in exploitation, the rich man purchasing the poor man’s cooperation with attention and proximity to glamour.
How did Gatsby set up his reunion with Daisy?
He used Nick as the staging ground. Through Jordan Baker, Gatsby asked Nick to invite Daisy to tea so he could appear as if by chance. He even sent a man to cut Nick’s grass, choreographing the meeting down to the flowers and the lawn.
What rescues the bond from being a simple act of using is what happens after the transaction is complete. Once the reunion has occurred, once Gatsby has Daisy back in his orbit, the practical reason for keeping Nick close evaporates. Gatsby no longer needs the neighbor. And yet the relationship does not end there; it deepens. Gatsby keeps confiding in Nick, keeps wanting him near, eventually tells him the buried truth of James Gatz and the poor boy who invented himself, a disclosure he makes to no one else. A purely instrumental man drops the tool when the job is done. Gatsby holds on. That holding on is the first real evidence that something genuine has taken root in soil that was, at the start, entirely strategic.
It is worth being precise about the sequence, because careless readings collapse it. The friendship does not begin sincere and stay sincere; it does not begin false and stay false. It begins false and becomes sincere, and the turning point is the moment Gatsby continues to want Nick after Nick has stopped being useful. Hold that sequence steady and the rest of the relationship makes sense. Lose it, and you flatten the most interesting thing about the bond, which is that it changes.
The friendship chapter by chapter
The surest way to prove that the bond between Gatsby and Nick is a developing relationship rather than a fixed condition is to walk it through the novel’s nine chapters and watch it change. Each stage adds something the last did not have, and the cumulative motion runs steadily from distance toward devotion.
In the first chapter the two men have not met; Gatsby exists only as a name and a figure glimpsed at the end, reaching toward a green light across the bay. The chapter establishes Nick’s character, his reserve, his observer’s eye, the moral training his father gave him, all the qualities that will later make his loyalty meaningful. The ground is being prepared, though no relationship yet exists.
The second and third chapters bring the men into the same orbit. Nick attends one of the famous parties as a rare invited guest and, in a small comic stroke, talks at length with a pleasant stranger before realizing the stranger is Gatsby himself. The detail matters: it shows how thoroughly Gatsby hides behind his own legend, and it gives Nick his first sense of the man beneath the rumors. The early attention Gatsby pays him is flattering and faintly suspicious, the courtship of a host who clearly wants something. The bond at this stage is curiosity meeting calculation.
The fourth and fifth chapters are the hinge. In the fourth, Gatsby’s purpose surfaces through Jordan: the whole cultivation has been aimed at reaching Daisy, and Nick is asked to host the reunion. In the fifth, the reunion happens, awkward and then luminous, with Gatsby nearly undone by nerves and then transformed by Daisy’s presence. This is the chapter where the relationship is most nakedly instrumental, Nick used as the bridge, and yet it is also where the first real warmth appears, because Nick, watching Gatsby’s vulnerability, begins to feel protective rather than merely curious. The transaction and the tenderness occupy the same pages.
The sixth chapter deepens the trust. Gatsby, stung by the possibility that Nick misjudges him, begins to tell the truth about James Gatz, the poor boy who invented himself. The confession is offered to Nick alone, and it marks the moment the bond crosses from arrangement into confidence. Nick is no longer the useful neighbor; he is the keeper of the secret. The reader feels the relationship settle into something with weight.
The seventh chapter, the longest and hottest, tests everything. The confrontation at the Plaza shatters Gatsby’s dream as Daisy proves unable to say she never loved Tom, and the drive home ends in Myrtle’s death. Through all of it, Nick stays close, watching his friend’s hope collapse in real time. The famous compliment about being worth the whole crowd comes here, in the wreckage, which is exactly what gives it force. Nick offers his highest words at the moment Gatsby has lost the most.
How does the friendship change across the novel’s chapters?
It moves steadily from distance to devotion. The early chapters keep Gatsby a rumor and the bond a calculation. The middle chapters bring confession and trust. The final chapters bring loyalty and grief, as Nick stays beside Gatsby through the dream’s collapse and remains faithful at the funeral when everyone else disappears.
The eighth chapter is the long, sleepless vigil. Nick lingers with Gatsby through the night after the catastrophe, and the two men talk with a closeness that no longer needs explaining. By now the relationship is simply a fact, settled and deep. It is also the chapter of Gatsby’s death, shot in his pool while still, pathetically, half-believing Daisy might call. The friendship’s final test is being set.
The ninth chapter is the proof. With Gatsby dead, Nick becomes the one person who will not abandon him. He arranges the funeral, hunts down the father, endures the desertion of everyone who fed on Gatsby’s hospitality, and stands at the rainy grave with the pitiful few who came. The bond that began as a piece of strategy in the fourth chapter completes itself in the ninth as the only act of loyalty the novel offers. Read in sequence, the relationship is not a static label but a journey, and the journey is the whole point.
What each man gives and takes: the relationship ledger
A friendship is best read in its exchanges, in what passes between two people and at what cost. The bond between Gatsby and Nick can be mapped as a ledger of giving and taking, and the surprising result is that the accounts do not balance the way the early scenes suggest they will. Gatsby starts as the one who takes, using Nick for access. By the end, Gatsby is the one who has given Nick something he could not have found elsewhere, and Nick gives back the only thing Gatsby ever truly received from another person: someone who stayed.
Set the exchange against the moments that test it and the shape of the relationship becomes visible. The findable artifact for this study is that map, the giving and taking weighed against the scenes that put the bond under strain.
The giving-and-taking map of the Gatsby and Nick friendship
| What passes between them | What Gatsby gives or takes | What Nick gives or takes | The moment that tests it |
|---|---|---|---|
| Access | Takes Nick’s proximity to Daisy | Gives the use of his house for the reunion | The staged tea in Chapter 5 |
| Attention | Gives lavish, singling-out notice | Takes the strange flattery, half-suspicious | The first party invitation in Chapter 3 |
| Truth | Gives the buried story of James Gatz | Takes the confidence, keeps it | The drive into the city and the confession |
| Admiration | Takes Nick’s growing regard | Gives a respect he extends to no one else | The line about being worth the whole crowd |
| Protection | Takes Nick’s care after the death | Gives the labor of the funeral arrangements | The empty house after Chapter 8 |
| Loyalty | Receives the only fidelity offered him | Gives constancy when everyone else flees | The graveside in the rain |
Read down the final column and the test cases tell their own story. Each strain on the bond resolves in the same direction: toward a Nick who gives more than the relationship requires of him, and a Gatsby who, late and almost without noticing, gives Nick the rare experience of being trusted absolutely. The accounts do not balance because friendship is not a balanced ledger. It is, at its best, a willingness to be in deficit, and by the end both men are in deficit to each other in ways the opening transaction could never have predicted.
What does Nick give Gatsby that no one else does?
Nick gives Gatsby presence without payment. The party guests come for the liquor, Daisy comes for the thrill, and the hangers-on come for the spectacle. Nick alone keeps showing up after the spectacle ends, asking nothing, and finally arranges the burial when the crowd that fed on Gatsby will not even send flowers.
The contents of that ledger are not static. The early entries are weighted toward Gatsby’s taking; the late entries are weighted toward Nick’s giving. What is remarkable is the crossing point, the place in the middle where the column flips and the relationship stops being something Gatsby manages and becomes something both men inhabit. That crossing is the transformation at the heart of this study, and it deserves its own close reading, because it is the hinge on which the entire bond, and much of the novel’s meaning, turns. To gather the scenes that fill this ledger in their original order, a reader can read and annotate The Great Gatsby free on VaultBook, where the exchanges between the two men can be tracked passage by passage.
The transformation: from use into a genuine bond
The most important claim a reader can make about this relationship is that it moves. It does not stay where it started. The bond between Gatsby and Nick is a study in how a connection forged for one purpose can outgrow that purpose and become something its origin never intended. Tracking that movement across the nine chapters is the surest way to settle the question of whether the two men are really friends.
In the early chapters, the relationship is all surface and strategy. Nick receives an invitation to a party where most guests were never invited at all, and he notes the oddity. He meets his host without realizing it, a small comedy that captures how little Gatsby has yet revealed of himself. Gatsby is a performance, and Nick is an audience being cultivated. The attention flatters and unsettles him in equal measure. He cannot tell whether he is being befriended or recruited, and the honest answer is that he is being recruited, with friendship as the cover story.
The hinge arrives in the middle of the book, and it has two parts. The first is the reunion itself, after which Gatsby’s stated reason for needing Nick is fully discharged. The second is the drive into the city, when Gatsby, anxious that Nick thinks him a liar, begins to tell the truth about himself, the real history beneath the invented one. He does not have to do this. Nothing in the original transaction required Gatsby to hand his secret self to the neighbor. He does it because he has come to want Nick’s good opinion for its own sake, not as a route to anything. The moment Gatsby cares what Nick thinks of him, independent of Daisy, the bond has changed its nature.
When does the friendship stop being a strategy?
It stops being a strategy after the reunion, when Gatsby’s practical need for Nick is fully discharged. From that point Gatsby keeps confiding, eventually sharing the truth of James Gatz, and wants Nick near for reasons unconnected to Daisy. The strategy ends; the regard begins.
From that turning point, the late chapters deepen what the middle established. Gatsby trusts Nick with his hopes and, eventually, with his fears. When the dream begins to collapse at the Plaza, when Daisy proves unable to renounce the past Gatsby needs her to renounce, it is Nick who watches and understands. When the catastrophe comes, Nick is the one Gatsby talks to in the long night, and the reader feels the closeness as a settled thing, no longer a question. By the time of the final exchange, the two men are no longer host and guest, or patron and tool. They are something the novel has no other example of: two people who have chosen each other.
This is why the transformation reading defeats both of the easy alternatives. The reader who insists the bond is purely instrumental has to explain away every scene after the reunion, all the trust Gatsby had no reason to extend. The reader who insists the bond was always sincere has to ignore the cold calculation of its beginning, the flowers and the cut grass and the staged tea. The truth holds both halves at once. The relationship begins in use and ends in love, and the journey between is the most quietly moving thing in the book. Fitzgerald lets the reader watch a real attachment assemble itself out of unpromising materials, which is a harder and rarer thing to dramatize than a friendship that was always warm.
The deepening is also visible in how the two men speak to each other near the end, a register worth reading closely in the account of Nick and Gatsby’s last conversation, where the warmth that the early chapters withheld finally surfaces in plain words. By then the strategy is long gone. What remains is regard, and the regard is mutual, and it is about to be tested by the only thing that can prove a friendship beyond argument: what one man does after the other is gone.
Nick’s lonely loyalty: the funeral nobody attends
A friendship proves itself most at the moment it can no longer be returned. While Gatsby lives, Nick’s regard could be read as flattery repaid, the natural pull of a poor young man toward a glamorous neighbor. Once Gatsby is dead, that reading collapses. The dead cannot reward fidelity. Whatever Nick does in the final chapter, he does for a man who can give him nothing back, and what he does is stay.
The collapse of everyone else around him is the measure of his constancy. The same crowd that swarmed the lawns every weekend, that drank the imported liquor and danced until dawn and treated the mansion as a public amusement, evaporates the instant the host is no longer useful. Nick makes call after call and finds only excuses. The man who played the piano in the music room, asked about his abandoned tennis shoes rather than the funeral. The business partner who claimed to have made Gatsby, declined to be involved, hiding behind a policy of staying clear of trouble. Daisy, the entire reason for everything, sends neither flower nor message; she and Tom have already left, sealed inside their wealth, untouchable. The carelessness of that crowd, the way it abandons the man it used, sets Nick’s constancy in sharp relief and feeds the larger reading of friendship and loyalty in The Great Gatsby, where this bond becomes the chief evidence for what the novel values.
Who actually attends Gatsby’s funeral?
Almost no one. Nick organizes it nearly alone. Gatsby’s father arrives from the Midwest, a few servants and the postman come, and the owl-eyed man who once admired the library appears at the grave. The hundreds who drank Gatsby’s liquor stay away entirely.
Against that desertion, Nick’s effort takes on the weight of a moral act. He arranges the funeral almost single-handedly. He tracks down Gatsby’s father, a worn old man from the Midwest who arrives clutching his pride in the son he barely understood. He stands at the graveside in the rain with a tiny gathering, the father, a few servants, the postman, and the man with owl-eyed glasses who had once marveled at the books in Gatsby’s library and who now delivers the blunt, broken benediction over the coffin. The contrast between the hundreds who came to consume Gatsby and the handful who came to bury him is the bleakest arithmetic in the novel, and Nick is the one who insists, by his presence and his labor, that the arithmetic should not be allowed to stand as the final word.
What drives him is partly the bond and partly his own character. Nick is not loyal to Gatsby because Gatsby was admirable in every way; Nick disapproved of plenty about him and never pretended otherwise. He is loyal because he came to care for the man, and because his sense of decency revolts at the spectacle of someone being used and discarded. The fidelity is the natural extension of the moral attentiveness that defines him elsewhere, the watchfulness explored in the study of Nick Carraway as confidant and witness. The same conscience that makes him a reliable narrator makes him an unwilling deserter. He cannot leave, because leaving would betray something he believes about how people owe each other more than convenience.
There is a quiet defiance in Nick’s stance at the end. He feels himself increasingly on Gatsby’s side and against the whole indifferent world, a solidarity that hardens as the desertions mount. The lonelier the loyalty becomes, the more it means, because it is chosen against every practical reason to abandon it. This is the moment the friendship completes itself. Everything the bond had been building toward, from the cold transaction through the warming middle, arrives here, at a wet grave with almost no one present, in the form of one man who refused to walk away.
Gatsby’s other relationships: why none of them is friendship
The clearest way to define what Nick is to Gatsby is to look at everyone else Gatsby knows and see how completely they fail to be friends. Gatsby is a man surrounded by people and possessed of none, and the catalogue of his other connections throws the singularity of the bond with Nick into sharp relief.
There is Meyer Wolfsheim, the underworld figure who claims to have made Gatsby, who built him up from nothing and gave him his start in the shadowed business that funded the mansion. Wolfsheim is as close to a mentor as Gatsby has, bound to him by years of profitable crime. Yet when Gatsby is dead, Wolfsheim will not come. He sends his regrets and a self-protective line about staying clear of trouble, choosing his own safety over any final gesture toward the man he supposedly made. The relationship was always a partnership of interest, and the moment interest points the other way, it dissolves. Wolfsheim shows what a purely instrumental bond looks like when the test comes: it produces an excuse, not a presence.
There is Klipspringer, the man who simply lived at Gatsby’s house, the boarder who ate the food and slept in the rooms and played the piano when asked. He is the parasite in its plainest form, a person whose entire connection to Gatsby was consumption. When Nick reaches him after the death, Klipspringer’s concern is not the funeral but a pair of tennis shoes he left behind. The grotesque smallness of that worry, set against a man’s death, is Fitzgerald’s bluntest verdict on the hangers-on. They took everything and owed nothing, and they felt the debt accordingly, which is to say not at all.
Why does no one come to Gatsby’s funeral except Nick?
Because Gatsby’s other relationships were all built on what he could provide, not on who he was. The party guests came for spectacle, Wolfsheim for profit, Klipspringer for shelter. Once Gatsby could no longer provide, the reason for the connection vanished, so the people did too. Only Nick valued the man himself.
There are the hundreds of party guests, the churning anonymous crowd that filled the lawns every weekend and spread rumors about their host while drinking his champagne. They are not friends in even the loosest sense; most never met Gatsby, and those who did treated him as a curiosity. They came for the spectacle and the free liquor, and when the spectacle ended they scattered without a backward glance. Their relationship to Gatsby was pure appetite, and appetite has no funeral in it.
And there is Daisy, the great exception that proves the rule, because she is the one person Gatsby genuinely loved, and she too sends nothing. Daisy is not a friend but the object of the dream, and when the dream becomes dangerous she retreats into her marriage and her money and leaves Gatsby to die alone. Her absence at the end is the cruelest of all, because it was for her that the whole edifice was built. That the woman Gatsby reorganized his entire life around cannot send a flower, while the neighbor he first cultivated for access arranges the whole burial, is the novel’s sharpest irony about where real loyalty turns out to live.
Against this gallery of users, partners, parasites, and the beloved who flees, Nick stands alone as the one connection that was a friendship. He is the only person in Gatsby’s world whose bond did not depend on what Gatsby could give. The contrast is not incidental; it is the whole proof. Surround a man with a hundred relationships of interest and one of love, then take away everything he can provide, and watch which bond survives. Only the friendship does, and its survival is what names it.
The passages that define the bond
A relationship in fiction lives in its lines, the specific moments where the abstract claim of closeness becomes concrete language on the page. Two passages, more than any others, fix the bond between Gatsby and Nick and reward close reading. One is spoken across a lawn; the other is confided by the narrator to the reader. Together they hold the whole relationship in miniature.
The first is the compliment Nick pays Gatsby near the end, shouted across the distance between the lawn and the steps where Gatsby stands. Nick calls the crowd Gatsby surrounded himself with what they were, a rotten gathering, and then tells his friend plainly that he is worth more than all of them put together. The words land with unusual force because Nick is not a man who hands out praise. He spends most of the novel withholding judgment, watching, qualifying. For him to break that reserve, to raise his voice and declare a verdict, is a measure of how far the regard has traveled from the wary curiosity of the early chapters. The line is the emotional summit of the friendship, the one place where Nick says out loud what the relationship has become.
What makes the moment richer is the gloss Nick adds afterward, in confidence, to the reader. He says he was always glad he said it, that it was the only compliment he ever paid Gatsby, because he disapproved of him from beginning to end. That second sentence is the key to the whole bond. It refuses to pretend the friendship was built on approval. Nick did not admire Gatsby’s bootlegging, his lies, his vulgarity, his willingness to remake reality around a dream. He disapproved, steadily, of much of what Gatsby was. And he loved him anyway. The friendship is not the agreement of two like minds. It is the rarer thing: regard that survives disapproval, attachment that does not require admiration to sustain it.
What does Nick mean when he says he disapproved of Gatsby from beginning to end?
He means his fondness for Gatsby was never blind. Nick saw the lies, the criminal money, and the grandiose self-deception clearly and judged them harshly. Yet he cared for Gatsby in spite of all of it. The disapproval makes the loyalty more credible, because it is not the loyalty of an admirer but of a friend.
These two passages also resolve the puzzle of how a careful, judgmental man could attach himself so completely to a figure he half-distrusted. The answer is that Nick separates the man from his methods. He sees the corruption in Gatsby’s world and the genuine, almost innocent hope at Gatsby’s center, and he gives his loyalty to the hope while keeping his eyes open about the corruption. That double vision is the most sophisticated thing about the friendship. It is not a story of a man fooled by a charming criminal, nor a story of two crooks in league. It is a story of someone who saw a person clearly, flaws and all, and decided that the person was worth standing by.
Notice, too, what the famous compliment does to the relationship’s chronology. Nick says it near the end, after the dream has begun to fail, after the Plaza confrontation has exposed how little Daisy can give. Gatsby has, by this point, essentially lost everything he reached for, and it is exactly then that Nick offers his verdict. The timing is deliberate. The compliment is not given to a winner riding high; it is given to a man whose great hope is collapsing, by the one person who can see that the collapse does not diminish him. That is friendship in its purest narrative form: showing up with your highest praise at the moment your friend has the least to show for himself.
A third passage, less quoted but just as defining, is the confession on the drive into the city. Anxious that Nick has come to think of him as a liar, a man whose stories about Oxford and the war and the family money do not add up, Gatsby begins to tell the truth, or a truer version of it. The disclosure is clumsy and partly self-serving, but its target is what matters: Gatsby cares about Nick’s opinion enough to risk lowering himself in it. He would rather Nick know an unflattering truth than believe a flattering lie. No instrumental relationship requires that. A man using a tool does not worry whether the tool respects him. Gatsby worries, and the worry is love in an early form.
The morning-after vigil deepens the same note. In the long night following the catastrophe, Nick does not go home. He stays with Gatsby, listens to him talk about Daisy and the past and the dream that is already dead though Gatsby cannot admit it, and when he finally leaves for work he turns back to deliver the compliment across the lawn. The image of a man lingering through the dark beside a friend whose life is unraveling, asking nothing, simply present, is the relationship at its fullest. By this point there is no transaction left to explain it. There is only one person refusing to leave another alone in his ruin.
The owl-eyed man’s blunt benediction at the grave, calling Gatsby a poor son-of-a-bitch over the coffin, supplies the final defining moment, though it comes from a near-stranger rather than from Nick. It works because it speaks the plain pity the absent crowd could not be bothered to feel, and Nick records it as the one honest word said over the body. That a passing visitor and the loyal narrator are nearly the only mourners is the relationship’s last and bleakest frame, and the reading of Nick and Gatsby’s last conversation lingers over how few words of warmth the two men managed before the end, and how much those few words carried.
What the bond reveals about each man
A relationship in a great novel is never only itself; it is also a mirror that shows each person more clearly than they appear alone. The connection between Gatsby and Nick exposes something essential in both men, and reading it as a revealing device adds a layer the plot summary misses.
What it reveals about Gatsby is that beneath the fraud there is a capacity for genuine human attachment that his pursuit of Daisy had buried. For most of the novel Gatsby relates to people as instruments of his dream; the parties are bait, the connections are means, the whole social machine exists to serve a single fixed end. The relationship with Nick is the one place where Gatsby relates to another person for that person’s own sake. He wants Nick’s good opinion, confides his true history, takes a regard he could not use. In doing so he shows that the man capable of monstrous self-deception about Daisy is also capable of a real, disinterested fondness for a friend. The bond rescues Gatsby from being merely a cautionary figure. It proves there was a person there, not just a performance, and that the person could love something other than an illusion.
What it reveals about Nick is the moral seriousness that his reserve usually hides. For much of the book Nick presents himself as a detached observer, careful to reserve judgment, tolerant to the point of passivity. The friendship draws him out of that pose. His loyalty to Gatsby forces him to act, to take sides, to labor on behalf of a dead man against the indifference of the living. The watcher becomes a participant; the man who reserved judgment delivers, at last, a clear one, declaring Gatsby worth more than the whole rotten crowd. The relationship reveals that Nick’s detachment was never coldness. It was a held breath, a reserve waiting for something worth committing to, and when he finds it in Gatsby he commits completely.
What does the Gatsby and Nick friendship reveal about the novel’s values?
It reveals what the novel honors and what it condemns. By making loyalty the one redeemed bond and carelessness the universal sin, Fitzgerald uses the friendship as a moral measuring stick. The crowd that deserts Gatsby is judged against the single friend who stays, and the staying defines the book’s idea of decency.
The bond also carries a symbolic weight beyond the two men. It stands as the novel’s small, stubborn argument that genuine human connection is possible even inside a corrupt and careless world, though it is rare and it costs the one who offers it. Everything around the friendship is glamour without substance, intimacy without loyalty, desire without care. The relationship between the watcher and the dreamer is the exception that gives the rule its sting. Fitzgerald does not let the reader conclude that all bonds are hollow; he insists that one was real, and by insisting, he makes the hollowness of the rest a choice rather than a fate. The friendship is the novel’s evidence that people can owe each other more than convenience, even if almost no one in the story pays the debt.
Read at this level, the relationship becomes the still point around which the book’s moral world turns. The contrast between the watcher and the self-inventor that drives the foil reading in Nick and Gatsby as foils is the same contrast that, read as friendship, produces this revelation: two opposite men, each completing what the other lacks, and in completing it, showing the reader what both the novel and its harsh world are finally made of.
The critical debate: instrumental, sincere, or projected?
No reading of this relationship is complete without facing the objections to it, and there are two serious ones. The first holds that the bond was never really a friendship at all, only a sustained act of using that Nick romanticizes after the fact. The second, subtler, holds that the friendship is real on Nick’s side but largely a projection, that Nick loves an image of Gatsby he has half-invented, much as Gatsby loves an image of Daisy. Both objections deserve a fair hearing, and both, on close reading, give way to the transformation argument this study defends.
Take the instrumental objection first. Its evidence is strong in the early chapters: the staged tea, the cultivated attention, the obvious fact that Gatsby’s interest in Nick is inseparable from Nick’s blood tie to Daisy. A skeptic can argue that Gatsby never stops using Nick, that even the confessions serve a purpose, binding the neighbor more tightly to the cause. But this reading cannot account for the time after the dream dies. Once Daisy is lost, once the catastrophe has occurred, Nick is useless to Gatsby in any practical sense, and yet the warmth between them is at its height precisely then. The compliment, the long final night, the trust, all come after Nick can do nothing more for Gatsby’s pursuit of Daisy. Pure instrumentality has no explanation for a closeness that peaks when the instrument has no remaining function.
Is Nick’s loyalty to Gatsby earned or just projected?
It is earned, though projection plays a part. Nick does idealize Gatsby’s hope, reading nobility into a dream that was partly delusion. Yet his loyalty rests on real things: Gatsby’s trust, his confessions, his singular regard for Nick. The idealizing colors the bond without inventing it, so the loyalty is genuinely earned.
The projection objection is more interesting and partly correct. Nick does idealize Gatsby. The final pages, with their soaring meditation on Gatsby’s capacity for wonder and his extraordinary gift for hope, clearly read more grandeur into the man than a flat accounting of his life would support. Nick turns a bootlegger with a fixation into a symbol of American longing, and a careful reader should notice the elevation. To that extent, the friendship contains an element of Nick loving what Gatsby represents to him as much as what Gatsby concretely is.
But projection alone cannot carry the whole bond, for a simple reason: the relationship is built on real reciprocal acts, not only on Nick’s imagination. Gatsby genuinely confided in Nick. Gatsby genuinely trusted him with the truth of James Gatz. Gatsby genuinely extended to Nick a regard he showed no one else. These are not things Nick invented; they happened between them. The idealization shapes how Nick interprets the bond, but it does not manufacture the bond out of nothing. A projection has no funeral to arrange. The fact that Nick’s loyalty produces concrete labor, the calls, the search for the father, the graveside vigil, anchors it in something firmer than fantasy. He is not only worshipping an image; he is burying a friend.
The synthesis that survives both objections is the transformation reading. The bond begins instrumental and becomes sincere; the sincerity is real but partly idealized; the idealization colors the friendship without inventing it. Holding all three observations at once produces the truest account: a relationship that started as use, grew into genuine attachment, and was remembered by the survivor with a love that saw Gatsby more generously than a stranger would, but not more generously than a friend is entitled to. That is not a flaw in the reading. It is what friendship looks like from the inside, told by the one who stayed.
The friendship and the honesty of Nick’s account
There is one more dimension to this relationship that a careful reader should weigh, because it touches the reliability of the entire novel. Nick is not a neutral chronicler of Gatsby; he is Gatsby’s friend, and friendship is not a neutral position. The bond that gives Nick his access also gives him a stake, and the stake colors the telling. Reading the friendship well means reckoning with how it shapes the very account we are reading.
The complication is real. A narrator who loved his subject is bound to render that subject generously. Nick opens the book by admitting that Gatsby represented everything for which he has an unaffected scorn, and then spends the entire narrative making the case for Gatsby’s greatness. The famous closing pages, with their soaring tribute to Gatsby’s extraordinary capacity for hope, are the words of a mourner, not a court reporter. A reader is right to notice that the man delivering the verdict on Gatsby is the one man in the world who is least able to be objective about him, because he is grieving.
But the friendship does more than threaten Nick’s objectivity; it also authorizes his account in a way no detached observer could match. Nick knows things about Gatsby that only intimacy could have given him: the truth of James Gatz, the private hope behind the public spectacle, the vulnerability under the performance. A stranger could report the parties and the rumors; only a friend could report the man. The closeness that biases the telling is also the closeness that makes the telling possible. Without the bond, Nick would have nothing but the gossip everyone else had, and the novel would be a thinner thing, a study of a surface with no access to the depths.
Does Nick’s friendship with Gatsby make him an unreliable narrator?
It makes him a partial one, not a dishonest one. Nick clearly idealizes Gatsby, shaped by grief and affection, so his portrait runs generous. Yet he is honest about his own bias, admitting his scorn and his disapproval, and the facts he reports hold up. The friendship tints the account without falsifying it.
The resolution is to read Nick as a partial witness who is honest about his partiality, which is a more sophisticated and more trustworthy thing than a narrator who pretends to neutrality. Nick tells us he disapproved of Gatsby from beginning to end; he does not hide his affection or pretend to a detachment he lacks. A reader who knows the narrator is fond can adjust for the fondness, the way one weighs a eulogy delivered by a friend. The portrait of Gatsby is generous, and we are told exactly why it is generous, which lets us trust it more rather than less. The fuller treatment of how much weight to give Nick’s testimony belongs to the study of Nick Carraway as confidant and witness, but for the purposes of the friendship, the key point is this: the bond is both the source of the novel’s intimacy and the source of its bias, and Fitzgerald wants the reader to feel both at once.
This double effect is part of what makes the relationship so central. It is not only a story inside the novel; it is the condition of the novel’s existence and the tint on its every page. The friendship is the lens, the light source, and the slight distortion in the glass, all at the same time. To read The Great Gatsby is to read Gatsby through the eyes of the one man who loved him, and the love is exactly what makes the portrait both possible and partial. That is not a weakness in the book. It is the book’s deepest design, the recognition that the truest account of a person often comes from someone too close to be fair, and that such an account, fairly understood, may be the closest thing to justice a careless world allows.
The strongest reading: the novel’s only redeemed relationship
Set the bond between Gatsby and Nick beside every other relationship in the book and its singularity becomes unmistakable. The Great Gatsby is a catalogue of human connection that fails. Tom and Daisy share a marriage of convenience and mutual betrayal, durable only because they close ranks to protect their money. Tom and Myrtle conduct an affair built on appetite and contempt, ending in violence. Gatsby and Daisy chase a love that turns out to be the pursuit of an idealized memory no living woman could satisfy. Nick and Jordan drift into a romance that Nick ends without much grief, having found her, and himself, careless. Every bond in the novel is compromised, transactional, or doomed, with one exception.
The exception is the friendship this study has traced. It alone moves in the direction of redemption rather than ruin. It begins, like the others, in self-interest, but unlike the others it transcends its origin. The marriage stays loveless; the affair stays brutal; the great romance stays a delusion; only the friendship between the watcher and the dreamer becomes more than it was. That trajectory makes it the moral center of the book’s emotional life, the one relationship Fitzgerald allows to mean something good.
This is why the bond carries so much of the novel’s weight at the close. When Nick stands at the grave and feels the world’s indifference as a personal affront, the reader is meant to feel that the indifference is a failure of the world, not a verdict on Gatsby. The friendship supplies the standard against which the surrounding carelessness is judged. Because one man stayed, the others’ desertion registers as a moral collapse rather than the normal way of things. Without Nick’s loyalty, Gatsby’s death would be merely sad. With it, the death becomes an indictment of everyone who fled, and the fleeing crowd, not the loyal friend, stands condemned.
There is a further reason the friendship redeems where the romances ruin. The romances in the novel are all about possession, about reaching for someone to have. Gatsby wants to possess Daisy, to fold her into his dream. Tom possesses both his wife and his mistress as extensions of his power. The friendship asks for nothing of the kind. Nick does not want to possess Gatsby; he wants, in the end, only to honor him. The bond is free of the acquisitive hunger that poisons every romance in the book, and that freedom is exactly what lets it become good. It is the one connection where one person simply wishes another well and acts on the wish, expecting nothing in return.
Read this way, the friendship is not a subplot but the quiet argument of the whole novel. Fitzgerald surrounds a single instance of genuine human loyalty with a world of glittering, careless betrayal, and lets the contrast do the moral work. The green light, the parties, the eyes over the valley of ashes, all the grand symbolism finally points back to a simple human question: when everything is stripped away, who stays. In Gatsby’s case, almost no one. But the almost is everything. One man stayed, and because he stayed, the novel has a heart. The friendship that began as a transaction ends as the only thing in the book worth calling love.
The novel’s closing movement confirms how central the bond has become. When Nick stands on the empty beach at the end and thinks his way out toward Gatsby’s wonder at the green light, he does not hold Gatsby at arm’s length as a cautionary specimen; he draws him in, and then draws the reader in too, shifting to the collective voice that has all of us beating on against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past. That widening from Gatsby to everyone passes through Nick, and it can pass through him only because he loved his friend enough to see the universal longing in the particular man. A stranger would have closed the book on a bootlegger’s pointless death. The friend closes it on a meditation that gathers the whole human race into Gatsby’s hopeless, magnificent reaching. The bond is the conduit. Nick’s loyalty is what lets a single failed dream become a statement about all of us, because only someone who cared could find the greatness in the wreck and insist the reader feel it as their own. The friendship, in other words, is not merely the warmest thing in the book; it is the lens that turns one man’s ruin into the novel’s enduring meaning.
How to write about the Gatsby and Nick friendship in an essay
For a student building an essay around this relationship, the bond offers a thesis that is both arguable and grounded, which is exactly what graders reward. The trap to avoid is the flat assertion, either that the two men are simply friends or that the relationship is simply Gatsby using Nick. Both claims are too easy to defend and too easy to refute, which makes them weak arguments. The stronger move is to argue the transformation, because it forces the essay to track change through evidence rather than restate a label.
A workable thesis runs something like this: the friendship between Gatsby and Nick begins as an instrumental arrangement and develops into the novel’s only genuine and redeemed relationship, and tracing that development reveals what Fitzgerald honors in a careless world. That thesis has a built-in structure. The essay can move from the cold beginning, through the warming middle, to the loyal end, with each stage anchored in a specific scene. The shape of the argument follows the shape of the relationship, which keeps the essay from drifting into summary.
The evidence to gather is concrete and limited, which is an advantage. For the instrumental beginning, use the staged tea and Jordan’s request, the cut grass and the flowers, the obvious dependence of Gatsby’s interest on Nick’s tie to Daisy. For the turn toward sincerity, use the confession on the drive and the continued closeness after the reunion has served its purpose. For the loyal end, use the worth-the-whole-crowd compliment, Nick’s gloss that he disapproved of Gatsby from beginning to end, and the funeral that nearly no one attends. Three stages, a handful of scenes each, and the argument is fully supported.
What is a strong thesis about the Gatsby and Nick relationship?
A strong thesis argues transformation, not a fixed state. For example: the bond begins as Gatsby’s instrument for reaching Daisy but becomes the novel’s only genuine connection, and Nick’s lonely loyalty at the funeral makes it the single redeemed relationship in a book otherwise built on betrayal and use.
The discipline that separates a high essay from a middling one is analysis over summary. It is not enough to narrate that Nick arranged the funeral; the essay has to say what the arrangement means, that loyalty offered to a man who can no longer reward it is the purest proof of friendship, and that Fitzgerald uses it to judge the deserting crowd. Every piece of evidence should be followed by a sentence that explains its work in the argument. The compliment is not just a nice thing Nick says; it is a verdict delivered at the moment of Gatsby’s collapse, which is what gives it weight. Train the essay to ask, of every quotation, not what happened but why it matters, and the analysis will carry the grade.
One more refinement lifts the essay further: address the counter-reading directly. A paragraph that acknowledges the case for pure instrumentality or for projection, and then shows why the transformation reading absorbs and defeats it, demonstrates exactly the critical maturity that top marks require. Conceding that Nick idealizes Gatsby, and then arguing that idealization colors a real bond rather than inventing a false one, is more persuasive than pretending the objection does not exist. The strongest essays do not hide from the hard question of whether the friendship is earned or projected; they answer it, and the answer is that it is earned, with idealization as the natural tint of a survivor’s grief. To assemble the scenes this argument depends on in their original sequence, a writer can read and annotate The Great Gatsby free on VaultBook and mark each stage of the bond as it appears.
Verdict: the friendship that began as a transaction
The question this study set out to answer was whether Gatsby and Nick are really friends, and the answer, fully weighed, is yes, with a history that makes the yes worth more than a simple affirmation would. The bond is genuine, but it earned its genuineness; it was not given at the start. It began as a piece of strategy, a rich man cultivating a useful neighbor to reach a lost love, and it should have stayed that small. Instead it grew, against the grain of its own origin, into the single real attachment in a novel otherwise crowded with false ones.
The name to remember is the friendship that began as a transaction. That phrase holds the whole arc: the cold calculation of the beginning, the warming of the middle, the faithful desolation of the end. Gatsby first valued Nick for his proximity to Daisy and ended by valuing him for himself, confiding in him as he confided in no one else. Nick first regarded Gatsby with wary curiosity and ended by burying him when the world would not, paying his highest compliment to a man whose dream had already failed and giving his loyalty to a friend he had disapproved of from beginning to end.
For a reader writing about the novel, the friendship offers an unusually rich seam, because it resists the easy thesis in either direction. Argue that it was always sincere and the early chapters refute you; argue that it was only ever use and the late chapters refute you. The defensible thesis is the one that tracks the change: a relationship that transformed from instrument into bond, idealized in memory but grounded in real reciprocal acts, and standing at the novel’s close as its one redeemed connection. That argument has the texture of the actual book rather than the smoothness of a summary, and it gives an essay something specific to prove.
The bond between Gatsby and Nick is the reason The Great Gatsby is finally a moving book rather than merely a brilliant one. The brilliance is in the prose, the symbolism, the social diagnosis. The feeling is in the friendship, in the image of one man standing in the rain at the grave of another, refusing to let the careless world have the last word. Everyone else used Gatsby and left. Nick used him too, at first, in the small way of accepting a generous neighbor’s attention. But Nick stayed, and the staying is the whole difference. In a novel about the failure of the American dream, the only thing that does not fail is the loyalty of a friend, and that is where the book, for all its grandeur, keeps its heart.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the friendship between Gatsby and Nick like?
It is the one real human tie in a novel full of hollow ones, and it changes shape across the book. At the start it is cool and strategic, with Gatsby cultivating his neighbor for access to Daisy. As the chapters pass it warms into something sincere, with Gatsby confiding in Nick the truth he hides from everyone else, and Nick coming to care for the man beneath the performance. By the end it is a bond of genuine loyalty, proven when Nick arranges the funeral that no one else will attend. The friendship is unusual because it is honest about its own flaws. Nick disapproves of much that Gatsby does and never pretends otherwise, yet he loves him anyway. That mix of clear-eyed judgment and steady devotion is what gives the relationship its weight and makes it the emotional center of the novel.
Are Gatsby and Nick real friends?
Yes, though the friendship has to be earned rather than assumed. It does not begin as friendship; it begins as a calculated arrangement, with Gatsby reaching for Nick because Nick is Daisy’s cousin and lives conveniently next door. What makes the bond real is everything that happens after the calculation has served its purpose. Once the reunion is done and Nick is no longer useful, Gatsby keeps him close, trusts him with his buried history, and treats him with a regard he extends to no one else. Nick, for his part, repays that trust by standing alone at the grave when the rest of the world deserts. A relationship that began in use but ends in one man burying another with care and grief is a real friendship by any honest measure. The origin was a transaction; the result was love.
Why is Nick loyal to Gatsby when others are not?
Nick is loyal for two reasons, one about Gatsby and one about himself. The first is that the bond became genuinely meaningful to him. Gatsby trusted Nick with his true story and gave him a singular regard, and that trust earned a fidelity the party crowd never could. The second reason is Nick’s own moral character. He is the novel’s careful observer, the man raised to remember that not everyone has had his advantages, and his conscience revolts at the sight of a person being used and then discarded the moment he stops being convenient. The crowd valued Gatsby only for his liquor and his spectacle, so it fled the instant the spectacle ended. Nick valued the person under the performance, so when the performance was over his regard remained. His loyalty is the natural extension of the decency that defines him throughout the book.
Did Gatsby befriend Nick only to reach Daisy?
At first, that is exactly why. Gatsby’s early interest in Nick is almost purely instrumental, a means of reaching Daisy, who is Nick’s cousin. The party invitations, the special attention, and the elaborately staged tea all serve that single aim. If the relationship had stopped there, it would be a study in using rather than a friendship. What rescues it is what Gatsby does after the purpose is fulfilled. Once Daisy is back in his orbit, Gatsby has no practical reason to keep Nick close, yet he does, confiding in him, wanting him near, and finally entrusting him with the secret of James Gatz that he shares with no one else. A purely instrumental man drops the tool when the job is done. Gatsby holds on, and that holding on is the first proof that the bond has outgrown the motive that created it.
How does the Gatsby-Nick bond become genuine?
The bond becomes genuine at the moment its usefulness runs out and the closeness continues anyway. After the reunion in the middle of the novel, Gatsby no longer needs Nick to reach Daisy, so the original reason for the relationship is gone. Instead of fading, the connection deepens. Gatsby tells Nick the truth about his poor origins, a confession he makes to no one else, and he keeps seeking Nick’s company and his good opinion for their own sake. That is the turning point: when Gatsby cares what Nick thinks of him independent of any advantage, the bond has changed from strategy into sincerity. The deepening continues through the dream’s collapse and the final night, until the two men are simply two people who have chosen each other. The friendship is genuine precisely because Gatsby keeps choosing Nick when there is nothing left to gain by it.
Why is this the only real relationship in the novel?
Because every other bond in the book is compromised, possessive, or doomed, and this one alone moves toward something good. Tom and Daisy share a marriage held together by money and mutual betrayal. Tom and Myrtle conduct an affair built on appetite and contempt. Gatsby and Daisy pursue a love that turns out to be the chasing of an idealized memory. Nick and Jordan drift into a romance that ends in mutual carelessness. Each of these is about having or using another person. The friendship between Gatsby and Nick asks for nothing of the kind; Nick does not want to possess Gatsby, only, in the end, to honor him. It is the single connection free of the acquisitive hunger that poisons the rest, which is exactly what lets it become real. One man simply wishes another well and acts on it, and in this novel that is rare enough to stand alone.